For married couples who are still committed and still building
You are both putting a lot into this marriage. But neither of you feels fully seen for the effort, responsibility, and emotional weight you carry.
Watch this before you decide what your next step is.
Us, On Purpose is a six-week guided experience that helps you understand what each person has been trying to build, translate what keeps being misunderstood, and practice clearer ways to make decisions, share responsibility, navigate hard moments, and stay connected as you build together.
Understand what each of you has been trying to build... and learn how to build it together.
Hear it from couples who have done it
One of you can feel unappreciated. The other can feel alone.
Both of you can be telling the truth about your experience at the same time.
Real effort gets misunderstood. Each person's automatic response makes the next misunderstanding a little more likely. That is not a character problem in either of you. It is a pattern neither of you can see from the inside.
What the six weeks actually look like
Six live guided sessions with Kes and Jaz, 75 to 90 minutes each.
Make what each of you carries visible
The effort, responsibility, and emotional weight that usually goes unnamed gets named.
Translate intention and experience
What one of you meant and what the other actually experienced stop being the same argument.
Recognize the pattern
You learn to spot the automatic response in the moment it begins, instead of after it has already happened.
Clarify what the moment needs
Not every hard moment needs the same response. You learn to tell the difference.
Practice a different next move
You practice it during the session, with guidance, not just discuss it.
Reinforce what works
What you clarify and practice becomes language and agreements you keep using after the six weeks end.
What you walk away with, whether it is a fit or not
The Program Questions Call is a short program conversation. It is not a sales pitch and it is not a coaching session. In fifteen minutes you get:
- A clear answer on whether the live schedule works for your household
- A straight explanation of what solo participation can and cannot do
- Clarity on whether Us, On Purpose is the right next step for you right now
- A direct answer to the one or two questions you still have
This is a short program conversation. It is not coaching, therapy, crisis support, or a place to decide which spouse is right.
Built for couples who are still committed and still building
Two facilitators, two lenses. Kes brings the big-picture lens. Jaz brings the integration lens. You get both in every session.
Live, not recorded. Six live guided sessions. You practice with guidance in the room.
Facilitated, not performed. Kes and Jaz facilitate rather than perform expertise from a podium.
Both spouses, or one. Both spouses may participate together. One spouse may also participate and work on their own next move.
A personalized Couples Clarity Map from a private onboarding process.
Your Us, On Purpose Playbook, built from what you clarify and practice during the six weeks.
One focused between-session practice each week.
Five optional live Practice Labs on a separate day, with no essential content withheld from the core sessions.
Both spouses' dignity and agency are protected throughout.
Who this call is for
This is for you if...
- You are both still committed and still building
- You are putting real effort in and it keeps getting misunderstood
- You want to work better together and feel closer while you do it
- You have one or two remaining questions before you decide
This is for you even if...
- Neither of you thinks of yourselves as "good at talking about this"
- You have tried something like this before and it did not hold
- Only one of you is ready to start right now
- You are not sure it is serious enough to need help
If you can tell something needs to change but you cannot yet name what, this call was made for you.
Two perspectives. One commitment to helping couples build together on purpose.
Kes
Kes brings the big-picture lens: pattern recognition, vision, self-leadership, and recognizing the moment an automatic response begins.
Relational Intelligence Certified Coach and Certified High Performance Coach
Jaz
Jaz brings the integration lens: how broad intention is experienced in everyday details, how visible and invisible responsibility shape the marriage, and how insight becomes practical language, agreements, and tools.
Together
Together, Kes and Jaz facilitate rather than perform expertise from a podium. They protect both spouses' dignity and agency while helping participants practice a more useful next move.
Frequently Asked Questions
No. Us, On Purpose is coaching and education. It is not couples therapy, crisis support, affair recovery, trauma treatment, addiction treatment, domestic-violence intervention, or a substitute for qualified care. When safety or scope concerns appear, qualified support comes before enrollment.
One spouse may participate and work on their own awareness, language, requests, boundaries, invitations, and next move. A mutual couple outcome requires both spouses' participation. A solo participant cannot be promised a change in an absent spouse.
It is a fifteen minute program conversation with Keston. You get clarity on the live schedule, what solo participation can and cannot do, and whether this is the right next step. It is not coaching and it is not a place to decide which spouse is right.
Six weeks. Six live guided sessions with Kes and Jaz, 75 to 90 minutes each, with no replays. One focused practice between sessions each week. Five optional live Practice Labs on a separate day.
No. Us, On Purpose is built for couples who are still committed and still building. It is for understanding what each of you has been trying to build and learning how to build it together.
Is this couples therapy?
No. Us, On Purpose is coaching and education. It is not couples therapy, crisis support, affair recovery, trauma treatment, addiction treatment, domestic-violence intervention, or a substitute for qualified care. When safety or scope concerns appear, qualified support comes before enrollment.
What if only one of us is ready to start?
One spouse may participate and work on their own awareness, language, requests, boundaries, invitations, and next move. A mutual couple outcome requires both spouses' participation. A solo participant cannot be promised a change in an absent spouse.
What actually happens on the free call?
It is a fifteen minute program conversation with Keston. You get clarity on the live schedule, what solo participation can and cannot do, and whether this is the right next step. It is not coaching and it is not a place to decide which spouse is right.
How long is the program and what is the time commitment?
Six weeks. Six live guided sessions with Kes and Jaz, 75 to 90 minutes each, with no replays. One focused practice between sessions each week. Five optional live Practice Labs on a separate day.
Do we have to have a big problem for this to be worth it?
No. Us, On Purpose is built for couples who are still committed and still building. It is for understanding what each of you has been trying to build and learning how to build it together.
Request your 15-Minute Program Questions Call
Answer a few short questions and you will go straight to the booking calendar to pick your time.
This is a short program conversation. It is not coaching, therapy, crisis support, or a place to decide which spouse is right.
Both spouses may participate together. One spouse may also participate and work on their own awareness, language, requests, boundaries, invitations, and next move. A mutual couple outcome requires both spouses' participation.
Us, On Purpose is coaching and education. It is not couples therapy, crisis support, affair recovery, trauma treatment, addiction treatment, domestic-violence intervention, or a substitute for qualified care. When safety or scope concerns appear, qualified support comes before enrollment.